What is
Mindfulness?
While many people think mindfulness means
meditation, this is not the case. Mindfulness is a mental state of openness,
awareness and focus, and meditation is just one way amongst hundreds of
learning to cultivate this state.
Although
mindfulness has only recently been embraced by Western psychology, it is an
ancient practice found in a wide range of Eastern philosophies, including
Buddhism, Taoism and Yoga. Mindfulness involves consciously bringing awareness
to your here-and-now experience with openness, curiosity and flexibility. Jon
Kabat-Zinn, a world authority on the use of mindfulness training in the
management of clinical problems, defines it as: "Paying attention in a
particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally."
Most people get distracted, “zone out,” or
spend most of their daily lives being unmindful or running on autopilot. As a
result, they then get lost, anxious, and frustrated when a situation doesn’t
happen as they expect it to. Here are some examples:
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While
driving or traveling, you don’t remember the experience or which roads you
took.
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While having
a conversation, you’re already thinking about what you’re going to say next
before the other person has even stopped speaking.
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While taking
a shower, you’re already planning what you have to do later and then forget
that you’ve already washed your hair.
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While
reading, you suddenly realize that you’ve been thinking about something else
and have no idea what you’ve just read.
These experiences are common for most of us
and are fairly harmless. But for people with overwhelming emotions, being unmindful
can often have a negative impact on their lives.
Why are
Mindfulness skills important?
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Mindfulness
skills help you focus on one thing at a time in the present moment, and by
doing this you can better control and soothe your overwhelming emotions.
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Being
mindful can help you learn to become more connected to yourself, to others, and
to the world around you.
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Mindfulness
helps increase self-awareness
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Mindfulness
will help you become less judgmental
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Mindfulness
will help you become less disturbed by and less reactive to unpleasant
experiences.
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Being
mindful reminds us that everything changes; that thoughts and feelings come and
go like the weather.
Through group discussion and the practice of a
variety of mindfulness exercises, the Mindful Awareness Group will help you
tune in to yourself, improve concentration, calm your mind, and learn to live
in the present moment.
Some material borrowed from:
Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, Dr. Marsha Linehan, and http://www.actmindfully.com.au/mindfulness